Passive language learning

Passive learning - when the parents speak another language beetween them

Passive language learning, also known as receptive language learning or incidental language learning, is an important part of how babies and young children acquire languages. This type of learning involves exposure to the language without focused instruction. It happens when children overhear conversations, listen to stories, or hear songs in the target language.

From birth to around six years of age, children are in a 'sensitive period' for language learning, where their brains are especially receptive to picking up new languages. This makes passive language learning particularly effective during these early years.

It's important to note that while passive learning is an effective way to expose children to a new language, active use of the language will be necessary for them to become proficient speakers. This typically involves conversational practice and more structured learning activities as they grow older.

Tips, tales, baffling moments and experiences from fellow parents:

Sara: We are a multilingual family residing in The Netherlands. We follow the "One Person, One Language" (OPOL) approach with our nearly 3-year-old daughter, and she is proficient in both Dutch (her dominant language) and Spanish. Initially, we didn't consider introducing English to her, as neither of us is a native speaker, and we believed she would naturally learn it at school later on. However, recently our daughter has been expressing frustration when she can't comprehend us well while we speak English. She often asks us what we're saying or why we're using "strange" words.

Alan: Our two children acquired their English language skills by listening to us, as well as through exposure to English content on platforms (video) and through reading books. Interestingly, they have developed significantly better accents in English compared to our own when they speak.

Leo: My wife and I communicate in English, while I speak Spanish to our child and my wife uses Czech. Additionally, our child learns French at school. Surprisingly, we haven't actively focused on teaching him English, yet he has managed to learn it effortlessly. Although I don't speak English to him myself, I've overheard him having impressive conversations with others in English.

Richard: I'm an English teacher in France, and I teach a pair of French-Polish sisters. Their parents communicate in English, and despite being 8 and 12 years old, the sisters are able to communicate comfortably in English. They do make minor grammatical errors and have a unique accent that blends French and Polish influences. It's amazing how passive learning has helped them develop their language skills. While they may benefit from additional stimulation from a teacher in the future, they are doing great!

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